Would it work to negotiate with exs lawyer trade money for more time?

As my colleague asserted you would not be trading one for the other. I would suggest you speak with an attorney in your area before you enter into...

Will they take arrears at next court date?

Child support is retroactive to the day that your ex filed for child support. The Court will determine the correct amount of support and then give...

Yes it is legal. Once your son turns 18 then the Courts have no further jurisdiction over where he resides.

You do need to provide further information. The money you have paid in child support was that pursuant to a Court order. How were you paying her....

Can a downward modification petition adjust support that is owed and not paid? Or only when a violation petition is heard?

If the Court grants him the downward modification it is only retroactive to the date that he has filed the petition. Your entire request for...

I currently live in Kissimee fl and am looking for a pro bono attorney to handle a child support case in suffolk cty, NY

Contact the Suffolk County Bar Association for assistance. http://www.scba.org/eva/index.php

How can I get sole custody?

You will need to file a petition seeking custody of your son.

My ex has filed false reports against me to win a custody case. How can I defend myself and press charges ?

As stated you need to ask for a hearing or make an application to dismiss prior to the hearing if the allegations do not rise to a family offense.

How do i get a temporary order of protection removed

That depends upon the facts of the case. You might be able to get it dismissed if the facts in the petition do not rise to the level of a family...

Are seperation agreements binding on the court?

Separation agreements are contracts and are fully enforceable under the principles of contract law.