The prosecutor will always consider your prior record when formulating a plea offer. Fortunately you don't have an extensive record and unless...

You may be able to plea bargain the ticket to a violation with no points, but unlikely that you will avoid paying fines.

In Suffolk County, you cannot adjourn a ticket online

Arrested after violating an order of protection.

If the case is dismissed, it will be removed from your record.

How do I go about getting a certificate of relief

You either hire an attorney or go to the clerk in the court where you were convicted and fill out the form

Can I get an Order of Protection revoked?

You can make a motion to vacate the order

No

Wife called police, an argument. Said I had a gun, to kill her. She changed her story to: I just want him to be nice to me.

If no arrest was made, there's nothing for you to do

Is there a way for me to seal a 221.05 conviction in NYC?

221.05 is a violation and will be sealed as a matter of law

Is it illegal to put a stop on a check. I put a stop payment on 2 checks I had written for a mechanic.

Based on the facts you put forth, you did not commit a crime. However, the District Attorney is prosecuting you based on the allegations made by...