What is the first thing to do when you want to file for divorce?

As everyone else has mentioned, obviously the first thing to do is consult with a local matrimonial attorney. Anytime there are issue regarding...

You can file a motion to vacate the default explaining why you failed to appear. You have almost no chance of removing the job absent a showing of...

I got married in 12/04 & retired from NYCDOC in 3/05 I filed for divorce in 8/2014 is my spouse entitled to any of my pension

She would would be entitled to an equitable share but that would be very small.

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What paperwork do I file with the court to show all the lies my husband is telling on his net worth.

Without going into the efficacy of your prior attorney (I know who you are referring to), trying to uncover lies in a Net Worth Statement is not...

How to press charges against a spouse when the police wont help

Has this been brought to the attention of the Judge in the divorce case? Your attorney should bring it up.

Can not go on with divorce

You need to have faith in your attorney, but sometimes it is out of their hands. The system can be daunting. If you do not settle the case then...

The judge can not order a settlement. He/she can suggest a settlement but if there is no settlement the judge can order a trial. Trial are...

Is the only way to have imputed income changed (from a divorce/child support case) by filing an appeal of the entire case?

Within 30 days you have the right to file an objection. That will send the file to a judge who will revue the decision of the magistrate. After...

If I file for legal separation , is my husband still liable for half the mortgage and bills.

If you are filing a lawsuit for legal separation it will be up to the court to decide who pays what. If you have a separation agreement then it...

Can I take my ex back to court for alimony after the divorce

Probably not. There is no alimony. It is maintenance and the purpose is to give you time to get a skill and training to be self supportive. There...