Looking for divorce advice. We have not lived together for more than 4 years now. He is asking for alimony and all of my 401k.

Find the cheapest lawyer you can to serve divorce papers on him and tell him you will fight him tooth and nail. The judge will probably laugh at...

I just want to know what my options are now that my husband wants a divorce.

It sounds like you do not want a divorce. Your first option may be a reconiliation. Marriage counseling might help. Did he say why he wanted a...

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Unless you can show some connection between the text messages and the effect on custody it will not be relevent. Focus on being the best parent...

Can audio in which father is talking to a 2 year old using foul language for mother be used as evidence in child custody case?

Yes as long as the audio was legally obtained as it is good evidence of bad parenting and probably, depending on the judge, would be weighed...

Can I get emergency custody of my son?

You should go to family court and ask for an emergency order based on whatever evidence you have; but it might be all he said-she said. If he...

How do I legally run someones record?

Your "buddy" in the police department would and should get fired and probably prosecuted for breaking the law.

While IN NY I watched an adopted mom slap a child more then once across the face (The Cop who I talked to told me to call CPS)

That police officer and CPS worker should be disciplined. It is certainly a crime to do what you described and "any form" of corporal punishment...

What do u do when a lawyer isn't defending your rights in a divorce and a custody?

You may want to change lawyers. Research lawyers and ask friends for referrels.

Can my daughters father get custody for her?

Custody depends on a number of factors and yes a biological father can get custody if a court determines it is in the best interest of the child. ...

My husband and I haven't slept together in 12 years. I left him but came back due to circumstances with my children.

It's not adultery. Maybe you should ask to see a marriage counselor to work on these issues before listening to money hungry lawyers saying to get...