The situation you describe happens more often than you might think. You are fully able to oppose your brother's application as is your father. ...

Can I hold a business liable for selling or contributing cigars or any tobacco merchandise to a loved one, if a doctors said no?

As frustrating as I am sure it feels there is little you can do besides what you have done. Businesses are not likely to police your Mom's behavior.

Is a Special Needs Trust the answer?

A Special Needs (or Supplemental Needs) Trust may be a great option for your relative. This type of trust will allow your relative to have funds...

You might consider adding something to the death announcement stating that the funeral is private, which may allow you to limit who attends or...

How do I get my mom transferred to my city?

If you have legal authority to transfer your mother that will be your best tool. You will have the ability to locate suitable care for her near...

There are several options. If the will has not yet been filed or probate of the will has not yet begun a proceeding to produce the will can be...

My father-in- law has a $20000 CD in his name and his daughters name. He is in a Nursing home and is entitled to Medicaid.

Medicaid will not "take" the money, but it is likely to disqualify him for benefits so long as the money is in his name. By seeking the advice of...

Do I really need a will?

A will can set forth your wishes with regard to all of the "other things" that will need to be determined at the time of your death. The assets...

Who do I contact if I have a problem with a ruling made by a judge

A lot more information is needed in order to assess the situation you are dealing with. New York State may not be the "arbiter" of whether he...

You sounds like a savvy consumer and as if you are paying close attention to your father's financial and medical needs. What you are experiencing...