What can I do to appeal or get some sort of license privilege in nys to provide for my family.

This is not a family law question. With all those DWIs in the last 12 years, not 25 years, you really need to go see a traffic law attorney.

Can my male friend win custody even if the mom or paternity proves he's not the dad? Does he have adoption rights? Motha 0 job,

Tell your male friend to go speak with an attorney.

Can my tax refund be affected if my husband owes money for child support?

If you husband owes child support arrears and you file a joint tax return, the refund, if you get one, could be garnished. You should talk to a tax...

Do I have to apply for a name change?

Look at your birth certificate. If your name is incomplete, call the NYC dept of health and apply for a corrected birth certificate.

Can a violation petition for an Order of Protection be filed after the Order has been dropped?

Anyone can file a petition at anytime for just about anything, especially in family court. However, your real question is will her petition be...

my question is, is the recording I have enough to charge him with adultery, and If so, is he still entitled to half of my asset

The facts as you present them should be addressed in an attorney's office. You should hire an attorney to protect your assets. Here is some general...

You did not mention how many children you have that are under the age of 21. Basically, since your income alone is well above the mandatory...

See above.

You need to have an attorney that practices guardianship law and proceedings look into your case

What is the best approach to this custody case? Pro se.

You are asking for an opinion of whether or not to go to trial on the custody issue. There is no way to offer an opinion on that matter based on...

I want to keep his stuff until he pays. I considered it a mechanics lean, but is this an unlawful taking or keeping rather?

Glad you consider it a mechanics lien, doubt the court will. Hire an attorney. So far, from what you describe, you have no grasp of the law.