My son is in Afghanistan and his wife is seeking a divorce and planning on moving back to Iowa. They currently live in Georgia.

You should consult with an attorney in GA and possibly file papers on his behalf.

We was married with my former wife in 1996, and divorced in 2010. In 2012 I have got married again in church with another women.

When you use the word pension, not clear if you have a pension from your work , or if you mean you would like to seek spousal support from your...

Child support

Sometimes the Court will give credit for things you have purchased before you were served. From now on, however, you should give the mother money...

Do I have to have my child living with me to file divorce and claim child support and custody.

You should consult with an attorney as generally speaking the child needs to reside with you for you to be entitled to child support. If anything...

The question isn't whether you can marry right away, per the answers of the many attorneys here, but, are you sure you want to? lol

"What can i do about my back child support?"

Definitely file a petition explaining your predicament.

Unwed mother moved to another state after the birth of child, she has my last name and her father not present birth certificate

The father has a right to file a paternity petition in Brooklyn. After that, you'll have to see what happens as your move may be viewed as one to...

You should be able to get the unused portion of the retainer back. Have the attorney give you a detailed bill for services rendered and costs paid...

If the visit was for May as you say, and it's Court ordered, you need to go.

Can I get a reduction hearing on back-support to lessen that total amount owed to my ex?

You owe the money legally. The only way to reduce it would be through an agreement with her.