Does this seem reasonable? & how long are these drug diversion programs? Can these charges be dropped/lowered after completing?

The offer in every case is different but there are times that charges or dropped or dismissed after the successful completion of a diversionary...

If he visits NY, can I have him served here even though he lives in Pennsylvania or does he have to be served in Pennsylvania?

He can be served in ny. However, he can't be served by a party to the action. This means you will have to have him served by a third party. Good luck.

It sounds like it would be difficult for a prosecutor to prove all the elements beyond a reasonable doubt. That being said, it is usually best not...

Can my ex force me to pay for private school when public school is available at both our addresses?

An attorney would have to review the matrimonial paperwork before discussing the issue at length. Your ex can always try to enroll her in private...

Could i really go to jail for a first time violation?

Usually plea offers come with a promised sentence. You should try to have a conversation with your attorney about possible options in your case....

Is this considered a violation?

Based on the information provided, it does not sound like a violation. If the order of protection was on your behalf any communication would be...

Do i have a defamation case against anyone?

There are not enough facts to make any determination. Not sure what is meant by being "included" in a drug bust. If you were not arrested there is...

If he comes home do I have to let him in the house? Do I have to let him stay in the house? Should I file for legal separation?

Unless he has been excluded from the home by court order, there may not be a way to bar him from the home. If grounds exist, you could go to family...

Criminal record

No. But you can check the NYS Office of Court Administration website to inquire about requesting background checks.

If they find out that i charge with petit lacerny are they going to fire me if my case is dismiss? What is my right?

That will depend on many factors. Are you an at will employee, or do you belong to a union. Is there a procedure regarding disciplinary actions? ...