Can a judge force a father to work to pay child support?

The Judge cannot force him to work. But if you go to court while he has a job, the court will issue an order of support. Once that happens, even...

My daughter has lice and my soon to be ex wont let me cut her hair.

Take your child to a doctor. Get a written diagnosis of lice. You do not say what your agreement says about having final say over decisions if...

Can I sue a man for lying for 10 years that he wasn’t married and he is?

Absolutely not. There is no "palimony" in New York State.

Is Modification of child support able to be done if waiver is signed?

You absolutely need to see a lawyer about this.

Should I write a letter to the judge?

If you cannot afford an attorney go to the office of the self represented and ask them to help you file a motion to set aside the agreement. Do it...

Is this harassment can I get a restraining order?

Do yourself a favor - change your email address. Tell your ex you will only respond to text messages that have to do with the health and welfare...

You don't say whether you had a written separation agreement. If so, the would be controlling on the issue. I urge you to seek counsel.

What if I move to another state before separation

You have the right to move wherever you wish. However, if you have children, you should not take them with you without a written agreement or a...

Will it happen like this?

You must see a lawyer. Do not sign anything before you consult with an attorney.

Can I sue hospital if they put in newborns chart that I the dad declined to be in his birth certificate when they never asked ?

No. If you want to be named as the father legally, you must file a paternity petition in Family Court. Beware that once you do so, you will be...