Besides the tax implication what are the advantages/disadvantages of prop settle vs alimony

Alimony ("spousal support" in NY) is paid over time, a property settlement is not. If you would like to discuss the relative merits and how they...

I am a 44 year old man who makes $29000 disability.. My wife is a nyc teacher making $90000.. Married 6 years no kids.

Most likely, yes. You should contact a local attorney if divorce is imminent.

My husband of 12 years filed for divorce with false information.

If you were married and supported by your husband for 12 years, then you can expect a court to require him to provide you some support for a period...

Speak to a local attorney--it MAY be possible.

Can an incarcerated parent fight losing rights to their child?

You can but the length of the prison sentence will likely determine the chance of success--if it is short, there's a good chance of success,...

What is the difference b/w financial trial and "referee" after discovery? What are processes, timetables, pros and cons of each?

It sounds like you have a lot of questions and some misinformation. All courthouses and courtrooms are public but the judges have discretion in...

Do I need a divorce lawyer

No, it isn't considered "abandonment" but if you want a divorce you can get on on other grounds. It is probably worth your time and money to set...

You probably cannot be forced to return to your parent or guardian at age 17 if you do not wish to do so.

How much weight is given to the preference of children ages 14 and 15 in family court as to which parent they want to live with?

The wishes of children age 14 and 15 will be given quite a bit of consideration by the court IF they are mature enough to clearly articulate them. ...

Same sex partner, we live together in a house I bought. I pay the mortgage, but she wants to be on the deed. Should I add her?

It sounds like it would be best for your goals if you "will it to her and do a cohabitation agreement." Talk it through with a local attorney...