How can my wife that i have been separated from since last December go to DSS and have me put on child support.

Perhaps now is time to get divorced.

If I haven't had to go back to court to re-evaluate my child support contribution for 8-9 years can my ex claim any back support

If the last order was issued in NY, you would owe for whatever it says you are supposed to pay up until you file a petition for a downward...

Do I need to get an attorney

You really must file with the court for relief asap! I suggest you contact a local attorney directly for help--you may be able to find one who...

How to divorce? how long it would take to complete the procedure? how much it would cost me?

The cost and procedure are primarily determined by your goals for the divorce. If you are both in agreement and neither of you wants anything from...

Divorce

Yes, of course you can get a divorce. Many people continue to live in the same house while working out the issues in their divorce. It's best to...

Can joint custody be overturned due to neglect on a another child that is not my son?

Yes, the judge may do so. If you already settled the last case, then you will need to file a new petition to have custody changed.

Can Judge order 50-50 Physical Custody?

Physical custody--maybe; legal custody will not be ordered if the parents cannot make decisions together.

Yes, once you open the door to CPS you no longer control when that door will close. You may be investigated as they see fit. I suggest you ask...

In NY the father has left the home, quit his job, in and out rehab relating to drugs. He is not paying support for two children

Either by negotiation to reach agreement or by leave of court. Leave of court will require a trial to determine whether the move is in the...

Unwed parents and 50/50 custody that I am not able to do, will I be forced to do it?

No, she can't "force" you to have 50% physical custody of the child if you don't want to do that, but don't start panicking yet as there are a few...