Can I take me daughter and move back home?

If the father does not agree to the move, he may be able to prevent it using the VA courts if you have lived there for the past 6 months and/or if...

Can I make a legal custody/visitation/etc. arrangement without filing for divorce or making a legal separation? How do I do that

Yes, of course! The Family Court in Brooklyn can issue a custody/visitation order. I encourage you to have a detailed, confidential consultation...

What should I do in order to have her come live with us? We can't afford to live on our own and his mom loves having us..

What you can and should do depends first upon what is stated in any relevant court order(s) and/or written agreement(s). I suggest you discuss...

Can they get great grandparents rights?

Possibly. You should discuss the situation in detail with a local attorney asap to get specific advice because each situation is different and all...

At a minimum all parties' signatures should be notarized. I suggest you also have the document reviewed by a local attorney to ensure it will...

Do I not have any rights because of the length of time I have been his primary caregiver? Or can he choose to stay b/c of age?

Step-parents generally do not have any rights superior to biological parents. Sometimes there are exceptions, so I encourage you to consult with a...

No, and Attorney Bodzin has given you an excellent explanation as to why. I suggest you arrange a confidential consultation with a local attorney...

Can I get a change of venue for my Divorce, and on what bases?

Change of venue is generally available when it can be shown that convenience of material witnesses and/or the parties would best be served by such...

What can be done to help child ?

What can be done depends upon analysis of all relevant court orders and written agreements. I suggest you consult directly with a local attorney...

Selected as the best answer

Most likely, you should immediately file a violation petition in the NY Family Court; however, I recommend you consult with an attorney and have...