New York is not a "50/50 state" meaning there is no presumption that a child's best interests are served by the parents sharing custody equally. ...

If I divorced her would I be liable to pay her alimony? and if so for how long?

Maybe. It depends a lot upon the your income, her income and the marital "lifestyle ". Considering you've been separated for four years, if...

Is it a violation of any kind, and what court will consider in this situation? This is only one of the relegations my ex does.

It is not a violation unless you've done something the order specifically directs you not to do. It is not up to the mother to "fill in the...

What will court take in consideration in this situation? My ex wants full custody to make all decision for only her convenience.

Yes, the court will take these things into consideration. Courts do not make custody decisions based solely upon what is convenient the parent(s)....

Is there another way for her to get me back without a petition?

Probably not, but unfortunately, your mom has to handle this unless an attorney has previously been appointed for you, and if so then you could...

Can I get a mainrence from my husband?

If your husband has much more money than you do, then it is possible you will be able to get some maintenance for a short time. I suggest you...

My question.Is there any law (time window) for judge to sign the papers or he/she has limited time and there is nothing i can.

A year is a bit long unless there is a problem. I suggest you (or your attorney) contact the clerk at the court to find out if there is a problem...

Can this agreement be declared, therefore, null and void, with a new one being entered into, giving me everything I want?

No, the violation will not void the agreement; however, it may change how the agreement is enforced and/or if any of the terms of the agreement...

Should I have a say, or is it enough that he tells me about the enrollment?

The primary characteristic of "joint legal custody" is shared decision-making. This does not mean every little decision must be made jointly, but...

Would we be better off hiring an attorney or should we see where things go at the court date that is already scheduled first?

There is a good chance that if you have an attorney at the next court appearance, your attorney may be able to dissuade the court from offering any...