What are my responsibilities toward her/the kids as far as health insurance,support and alimony. Be specific!!!

Specificity is difficult without additional details. You will not be obligated to pay child support or to provide health insurance for children...

Can I file hire my husband's former divorce attorney to represent me?

You cannot hire him. It is a conflict of interest to hire someone for the same matter.

Courts further upstate have shorter waiting times to process papers. However, as others have stated, if you file in a county where neither of you...

Can I do a phone hearing instead of going to court?

You may make a written application to the court to appear by phone along with your request to dismiss the matter.

I lost my job while in the middle of child support hearings. Do I need to file another petition if this case is yet to be final?

This is a complicated fact pattern. I suggest seeing an attorney who will probe you for additional details.

Where would I have to start my divorce in NY or NJ

New York does not have jurisdiction because neither of you lives there. You should file in New Jersey or potentially Pennsylvania depending on...

Can we be our own advocate in court?

You may be your own advocate but I advise against it.

Can I Exchange My Florida Drivers License In New York, Even If I Owe $2,642 In Child Support. I Just Got My License And I Really

If it is suspended, you cannot exchange the license

You need to go to court barring consent from the father. You need to file a petition asap if he doesn't agree to ensure you are not violating a...

What will they do with my children? will the country send them to a shelter or will they be allowed to come with me?

Ask your lawyer for a consultation with an immigration lawyer. You need to provide more information to that lawyer and your divorce lawyer. You...