Bottom line is NTA or not you will have the prove BOTH Relationships were bonafide.

Case is on hold til you comply with their request and send in a completed I-130A

If you leave with a pending I-485 without advance parole your I-485 will be denied and you will have to consular process an immigrant visa.

In addition to copies go to cbp.gov and retrieve your I-94 entry from system.

I-485 is only for people in US. If you change processing to Pakistan you will incur HUGE delays in processing required I-824. Best option is to...

Check processing times at www.uscis.gov

No - they are preparing to place visa in passport most likely based on what officer said

Assuming they review marriage document and say the case is documentarily qualified, you still have many months til interview is scheduled. When...

She is not in same household. If you need her income to get over the poverty guideline you should each file an I-864

Do you have any children who are conditonal residents also? How old?