Hello, I would just need a general insight how this situation would work out:

Both or neither, depending upon what claims are being pursued. The wisest and safest action is to give prompt notice to all insurance companies -...

Do I need an attorney if I am being named as a defendant in a personal injury case?

Yes. If you do not have an attorney then a judgment will be entered against you. Assumedly, you have homeowners coverage.

Can I get the family for emotional damage?

Very sorry for what you and your family are experiencing. I believe this is called a loss of Sepulcher. Contact local and qualified counsel to...

Is my lawyer doing all he can?

Sorry to learn of this terrible injury. Workers compensation is a system that punishes workers a second time. Make sure you have attorneys...

Is there any money out there to help me?

Social security disability claim perhaps. Good luck.

Does comparative/contributory negligence apply?

As was previously posted, the "illegal" park as you describe it was not the event that cause the hit.

Why is their insurance company saying they are investigating something that was not my fault when he was fleeing scene

They investigate to limit exposure or to outright deny coverage. Always speak with local and qualified counsel.

Very sorry for what occurred to you. I genuinely wish you all the best. You must secure the car and the airbags. Without them your near impossible...

Very sorry for your loss. Contact qualified counsel asap. Good luck.

What do I need to get this going.

Never heard that expression before; there are many "ace" attorneys on Avvo. You can also call your states trial lawyers association or search...