I'm out on bond for a buglary charge and I was just served papers for backed child support. How can I avoid going back to jail?

It’s nit a crime but you can get up to 6 months if a judge finds your failure to pay was “willful.” To avoid jail, pay at least some of what you owe

What could I do about this situation?

I don’t think there is anything you can do. It’s a private complex. The fact that the case was dismissed just means the allegations weren’t proven....

It sounds to me like he has a defense. His intent was to get her to leave but he would have to testify. Jerry could maybe pull it off, not sure...

I missed my court date if I go to court & let them know will I get arrested?

You might have bail set depending on the circumstances. Best bet is hire a lawyer to go with you when you turn yourself in

What is the sentence for a class b felony criminal sale of a controlled substance/narcotic in NYS?

It is a possible sentence if he has no prior felony conviction but only his lawyer can assess whether such an offer is realistic.

What can be in my situation?

Not sure what you mean by "didn't get arrested." If you were given a Desk Appearance Ticket and a date to return to court, you need to hire a...

Not unless you get the okay from your P.O.

Do I still have to pay the remaining balance?

Depends what the retainer agreement (if there was one) says and how much time the attorney has spent on the case. Even if the attorney didn't go...

Probably not much, possibly harassment if there are other facts.

I got arrested for the 1st time?

No one can can adequately advise you based on the few facts you provide. hire a lawyer to give you an accurate assessment of all your options.