Hi I was arrested in nj in February 25 2016 it's now the end of July 2016 and still no court date

You probably have a warrant. I imagine you don't know who your lawyer is or you would have called him/her by now. Call the court immediately or...

MISDEMEANOR MARIJUANA

Sounds like you got the marijuana ACD (adjournment in contemplation of dismissal) pretty standard for misdemeanor marijuana possession. if so, the...

Do U.S. courts maintain a database of social security numbers or driver's licences?

NY courts do not maintain such databases. In New York, criminal records are maintained by the Office of Court Administration. If you are arrested...

There is no way to know without looking at the specific conditions of probation you were given at the time of sentence.

Arrested in a carribean country

To the extent this question can be answered, you would need to contact an attorney familiar with the laws and procedures of that jurisdiction.

What will I be punished with for a possession of marijuana charge if I am moving to a different state within the next week?

Hire an attorney. With proper paperwork, the case can be resolved, perhaps even dismissed, without you having to personally appear.

What do I do if I have been given a citation and need to appear in court but am no longer in the country as I was not a resident

Hire a lawyer. With the proper documentation, a lawyer will probably be able to take care of the matter without you having to return to New York...

Can I sue NYPD for kicking in my door with my children there

There may be a basis to sue, but you will first have to deal with the charges against you. You will need to consult a lawyer who handles civil...

How is it that the majority of lawyers avoid this question...I have done research and found that once an oath of office is taken

What's the question? I would venture that the majority of (if not all) lawyers would disagree with the results of your "research".

Is my friend's case being overturned or is this normal "housekeeping" to close the case?

No need to get excited. He will serve his time as agreed. His attorney is the best source of information but it sounds like it is a technicality...