Fiance has a QMCSO that states his ex-wife is to provide heath insurance; however NYS is hitting his paycheck hard for insurance

That question can't be answered solely on the information provided. If he believes he has grounds for a modification of the order he should consult...

My son is 18, dose not live with either parent, (choose's not to), quit school today. Do we legally have to be responsible?

In New York parents are responsible for their children until declared emancipated or until age 21. Child support orders are not altered simply by...

Where do I find information regarding this case?

You may be able to search online through the New York State Court system e-courts site.

Are pending small claims court cases public record. Can an outide party look up the case if they have the docket number?

Yes. But they won't find much information.

My sons ex girl friend took their 1 year old to oklahoma without him knowing and filed custody papers,he wants him back in N.Y.

He should file a petition in Family Court seeking custody and/or parenting time.

The police can not "require" you to get an order of protection. If the order is causing trouble you should move to get it modified. To directly...

Can I sue my ex wife for breach of contract?

You should consult a local attorney. Even if a verbal contract of this type is theoretically enforceable, proving it may be quite difficult.

Can I have my husbands public defender serve him divorce documents?

If the public defender tells you he is accepting service of the papers on behalf of his client that is sufficient - but...you'll still need to file...

In Indiana, my ex wife refuses to give back personal property awarded to me. What are my options?

No, there are no criminal charges possible. If you're unable to negotiate a proper resolution of the issue you should return to the court and seek...

My wife cheated while deployed

The adultery is of no importance. You should consult with a local divorce lawyer to discuss your options.