Shouldn't I find a lawyer before I pick up a separation paper from my former employer since I only have 21 days before I have to
Yes - but this isn't a divorce question.
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Yes - but this isn't a divorce question.
You should consult a local attorney ASAP to discuss your options.
You should file this question under the bankruptcy section rather than divorce...and consult a local bankruptcy attorney for advice.
You presumably will be able to sell the property and pay off his lien as part of the settlement.
It sounds like you are. But go the courthouse and look in the file if you're uncertain. If the Judgment is in the file you're divorced.
If the father's visitation time would be affected (and it probably would) - if he does not consent to the move and to a change in the visitation...
You'd have to file a petition in Family Court. You may want to engage the services of an attorney to do it.
These are questions you should be asking your attorney. However, generally, defaults are decided on the submitted papers.
The only circumstance under which he would be entitled to any portion of the value of the home is if he could show that by his efforts (or income)...
If it retained jurisdiction (and most do) you can return to the court which ordered the support. You may want to consult a local family law...