My Girlfriend trying to get divorced for the past 3 years. Her Ex-husband to be seems to play the waiting game

Ask the lawyer - and if she doesn't have one, get her one!

I filed for divorce for the last 3 years, but husband or lawyers keeps adjourning w/o reason. I feel my Lawyer is not helping.

If you're not satisfied with the answers you're getting from your lawyer you should have a frank discussion first, and then, if you're still not...

Maintenance Pendente lite

That you have to pay child support matters - but, again, pendente lite awards are generally needs based. If you're not satisfied with your lawyer's...

How do I force my ex to sell or refinance a house we own together.

You can bring an action for enforcement in Supreme Court.

My father and I want to purchase land to hunt on. When my father passes, it will be only my land. If my wife and I ever divorce,

Everything in a divorce is negotiable.

Maintenance Pendente Lite

It's hard to tell why this happened - but usually pendent lite support is needs based.

If I buy a house while going through a divorce, does my wife have any claim to it?

If you do not file for divorce she may have a claim - though it won't be the strongest, and if you spend inherited money to buy the house it would...

Ordinarily there is no tax payable in the transfer of assets pursuant to a divorce. The principal exception would be spousal support.

Unpaid debts in divorce

That depends upon the creditor - and upon whether you seek a contempt finding.

Should I get my own lawyer

You should immediately contact a local attorney to make sure that your rights are protected. You cant stop him from getting a divorce - but you...