Can I sue another stripper? She is degrading me, slander & causing me emotional distress

Yes, you can. But it will be both costly and potentially embarrassing.

I want to know with the house being only in my name what could my husband get...

Whose name the house is in does not determine who gets any interest in it. It's far more complicated than that.

It makes no difference. Inheritance is not subject to equitable distribution in a divorce: it's separate property.

How to serve divorce papers?

You can not use FedEx. You have to serve both under the laws of New York and the laws of the country in which she is resident. If the country is a...

I would like to file for divorce from my husband who has abandoned me and my children. He has gotten another women pregnant.

Why would you want to wait? What benefit do you think you would get?

My husband is planning to file the a summon w/ notice.The ground is Irretrievable Breakdown in relationship.

You should have the papers reviewed by an attorney - and you should not sign anything without consultation.

Am I entitled to money from ex-husband.

Not unless your settlement agreement calls for you to get part of the claim.

Is it possible to vacate a divorce judgment?

Your first inquiry should be to your attorney - without understanding what actually happened it's impossible to tell if there's any grounds for...

Reconciliation

Reconciliation takes place when the parties decide a divorce isn't what they want. It can happen at any time.

How can I get an uncontested divorce from my spouse astranged for 11 years?

If you can't find the spouse to work out the details you can't get an uncontested divorce.