Divorce took place without my knowledge, fraudulently signed, and negotiated to my detriment

One would have to see the file to be certain - however, where have you been for the past 28 years? Waiting until now does not help your case.

The Order should state whether a personal appearance is required. If you're having trouble reading it you'll certainly want the assistance of a...

I want a divorce but my husband won't sign and we have children under 21

You should contact a local divorce lawyer and discuss your situation in detail. It doesn't matter that he doesn't want the divorce: if you want one...

I married in Italy 5 years ago. My exhusband does not want to sign for divorce. I live in New York. Can I get a divorce here?

Yes, you can. Where you got married doesn't matter.

What can I do if the judge is not enforcing the court order is there a judicial complaint process for divorce

Your attorney should be seeking legal fees as a part of any motion seeking enforcement. If you don't have an attorney you should get one!

EMERGENCY NEED of pro bono representation.

If you're a member of a local church you might discuss your options with your pastor, who may have connections to some legal resources.

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How can I get child custody? We never married and have a verbal agreement on my seeing him every other weekend. I think neglect.

You should discuss with a local attorney bringing a petition seeking custody... but you should understand that the burden of proof is high.

What can i do to prove my sons father unfit

You should bring a petition in Family Court and offer the proof you have. Photographs would help.

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How can the restraining order still be valid and how do I take care of it so he wont get charged with invasion of privacy?

You should discuss this with his criminal attorney. If he doesn't have one he should get one.

Can Ex-wife changed child's last name w/o my consent if she has Sole physical and Legal custody.

Unless she falsified a document it would seem unlikely that she would be able to change the child's name without your consent. You should discuss...