Is it illegal in the state of new york for a sep parent to tape record a child without the consent of either parent?

No.

Child niglect

It's not enough information to answer.

There is such a thing under NY law - but it's used very rarely... check with the Legal Division in your County Clerk's office.

That depends solely upon the backlog on the day you file.

That depends solely upon the backlog on the day you file.

Marriage from 40+ years ago did not complete a divorce but has since married spouse #2, divorced and married to spouse #3.

The short answer is no. You need to consult with a. attorney ASAP- you have a major mess on your hands.

Can ex-husband stop child support for our 18 year old son who is still in High School because girlfriend is pregnant?

No.

My soon to be ex husband has not showed up to any of our hearings, can he now request new hearings now that he has an attorney

The court may or may not allow it.

Can my wife get my mobile home and property?

These are highly fact specific determinations - how was the title conveyed? Why? Consult a local attorney to discuss the situation in detail!

Can you appeal against a judges decision?

You can only appeal if you meet very strict deadlines. Be careful - hire a local attorney if you can!