Will I be required to give my EX have of my IRA since it is an individual account and not joint.

If the funds were earned/accrued during the marriage they are subject to equitable distribution.

I was served divorce papers but some things is wrong in the papers like the date i got married and other little things

The grounds for the divorce is less important than other aspects of the case - you should show the papers to a local attorney and discuss your...

The case will continue parties agree to discontinue it.

Can my ex have me evicted from the marital home?

That's not enough information on which to base a good answer

If my husband is sued by former employer for owing money from a settled lawsuit, am I as his wife responsible for that money?

That would be highly unlikely. However if you have money in a joint account or assets in both of your names it could become a problem.

That depends. Do you need to divide a retirement asset?

It's not nearly that simple. Specific legal language is required.

Where do I get my judgment of divorce paperwork with raised stamp in Rochester, NY?

You obtain it from the County Clerk. There may be a small fee for a certified copy, which is what they need.

You don't handle her. You file for divorce - after six months the issue of mental health will be very limited in effect.

Husband won't sign separation papers

You should contact a local attorney about filing a contested divorce case. You don't need his signature.