I'm married to a Soldier who lacks all leadership Values and he wont give me a divorce. How can I pay for a divorce lawyer?

If your husband has all the money chances are that the court will require him to pay your attorney. Consult a local attorney and see what you can...

In Maryland if a person buys a car before they are married. Can the other spouse get it If their name is not on the title?

Not under most circumstances - but it isn't clear from your question whether the couple has divorced or not.

One of the reasons one hires an attorney is to avoid problems of this natu

It's unlikely that such a message would constitute notice. Use regular and certified mail.

If you have offered to make payment in full the judge will not be kindly disposed that the opposing attorney is making work in this fashion....

Unmarried and soon seperating, she has custody of my son, she has no car, will court give her my vehicle?

That seems highly unlikely. I don't know who told you it would happen - but unless that person is your attorney, I'd question it.

Can the child's parents sign off the child and give up the parents right ?

The child support obligation is not altered by so-called "signing off" on rights or visitation.

Child support for 1 child. Is it 17% gross income from 1 or both parents?

The formula set forth in the law is relatively complex - but the easy way to think of it is as 17% of your income less certain deductions (FICA,...

Why would a judge grant change in visitation, if there has been no change in circumstances?

Unless there is a change in circumstances it would be very unusual. But you should consult a local attorney to see if there are any circumstances...

Can I legally bring my daughter back into my home?

That depends upon the resolution of the case and the final order that gets entered.