How long does it take for a victim of family abuse to get unilateral divorce?

No separation is required. You can file for divorce- but if there are areas of disagreement it will be what is known as a contested case - and that...

Husband married in another state. What do I do?

The first thing to do is find out if he divorced you - either here or in another state. In any event, you should consult a divorce attorney.

There is no waiting period in New York.

I suspect he said file a motion seeking a plenary hearing - but I don't know. Get the transcript, find what the judge actually said and work out a...

I have been a stay at home for 11 years. In the process of divorce. If I get a job will that effect my spousal support.

Possibly - but that can't be answered accurately without a lot more information. In any event the spousal support should not be the driving factor...

I was awarded half of my ex hubby 401k and annuity. he was to pay by nov.1st2009 or would go to a default judgement.

File an enforcement action, most likely in Supreme Court.

What needs to be in the response that is required within 20 days on my divorce papers?

That depends upon the allegations in the papers. Your county courthouse may have a pro se assistance clerk who may be able to help...but if you're...

My husband took my 7 year old and will not return her. What do I do???

You should consult a local divorce lawyer and discuss your options, which include filing a petition seeking custody or filing for divorce - and you...

If I own a painting or limited edition print, can I make a copy of it - for my own use or resale?

No. You may not make a copy.

My collaborative divorce, started by my spouse seems to favor a better outcome for him. Should i continue?

Under those circumstances you probably will do better with a litigated divorce.