When a child turns 16 after a divorce, can they choose at that age who they want to live with without going back to court?

As a child grows older the judge tends to listen to the child more - but the child's reasoning is often important.

IN FLORIDA < Can I be made to pay past age 18 if my Divorce degree says support ends at 18, when child still in school till 19,

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Yes.

Been divorced about 20 yrs. ex claims I owe her money I believe for kids schooling.

Which states are involved may make a difference.

Ex husband does not have life ins. as required.

If you don't get a copy of a valid policy seek enforcement through the court.

There is no such thing as a poor man's divorce.

Can the husband asked to be reimbursed for money he spent for the wife to go to nusrsing school?

He can ask. But it's not likely he'll be reimbursed, unless the wife has unusually incompetent counsel or the deal is wonderful for her otherwise....

How does one go about a legal separation when they don't have the finances i live off of ssi

Legal separation requires a separation agreement - a document almost identical to a settlement agreement in a divorce. It's filed with the county...

Years. There's no advantage to the cruel/inhumane. Fighting over silly stuff can drag a divorce out for quite some time.

Question on divorce and alimony

That's not enough information on which to base an answer. You should consult an attorney and discuss the finances of the marriage in detail.