My mothers boyfriend kept pushing me, I hit in to make him stop. Should I press charges or get restraining order?

Both. He may or may not file a cross complaint. As to your mother - it's not clear what the issue is.

Should I go back to the court and file contempt or go thru child supp enforcement?

Back to court.

Can emotional abuse of a natural parent by a grandparent with custody be proven and used as "evidence" in custody cases?

Your relationship with your mother is not relevant. What is relevant is what is in the best interest of the child. Consult a local attorney and see...

I strongly feel that my lawyer is not going to fight for me the way a lawyer should

You can always hire your own attorney at any time.

I strongly feel that my lawyer is not going to fight for me the way a lawyer should

After eight years it may be very difficult to achieve a different result - but you can hire your own attorney

What are the guide lines to child support if the child go college away from home

New Jersey continues support above the age of 18 as long as the child is still in school or college. Once a child attends college, the Guidelines...

No visitation rights.

No.

Do military couples have to abide to new york resident requirements to file a divorce?

Yes. § 170. Action for divorce. An action for divorce may be maintained by a husband or wife to procure a judgment divorcing the ...

If you have lived in New York for the past two years you can file for divorce here. Service will require performing a diligent search, and, if that...

It depends - typically such a motion will cost several thousand dollars by the time it's prepared and filed.