I live in California and my wife filed for divorce in Colorado and I don't even have the money to respond, what can I do?

If she is a resident of Colorado she has the right to seek a divorce there.

Divorced two years ago. Ex moved 4 hours away and I just got served with 4 motions to appear in the county where she now lives.

Yes, a motion seeking transfer of venue has to be filed - but see 61.13(2)(d) of Florida Statutes which states: “The circuit court in the...

This about child custody... and the clause that was put forward

There is nothing that requires you to accept his condition. Consult an attorney before you sign documents that can have a lasting effect on your life.

The delays can be frustrating. But you can instruct your lawyer to refuse further adjournments - which would mean that it will be up to the court.

If my husband took out all the IRA accounts and pension 401K and wants to divorce do I have a right on them

Yes, you probably do have a right to a portion of the accounts. You should consult a local attorney to discuss specifics.

Can an executed mediation agreement in Georgia be changed if husband is not abiding by the agreement?

Yes, she can file a police report. Whether the executed agreement can be changed or modified is something that can't be answered without more...

NJ Taxes after separation and divorce

No.

Make a mistake when filing for divorce.

You'll have to start over. Consult a local attorney before making any more mistakes.

My divorce and child support was signed in Nevada, and it it says it's to be paid untill the child is 18,

Probably not. If you're served with papers consult a local attorney.

If my wife wants a divorce and we have been married less than 8 years can she take any of my 401k

Possibly. When the 401k was accrued matters.