In NY state does premarital money that is used to make marital purchases such as a house or a car loose or maintain its identity

Typically under those circumstances the pre marital money used for the house would be considered something that would lead to a credit for a...

I need to proceed with divorce and file bankruptcy, which do i do first??

You should speak to a local bankruptcy attorney to discuss your options. Depending on how the debt is structured it may make a difference.

Mediation and settlement

The first question to ask is what lawyer? Yours? The other side's? An independent mediator?

With R.I passing gay marriage law, can i get a divorce from my same sex marriage done performed in MA?

Same sex divorce laws are still evolving. But most states that allow same sex marriage will easily handle your same sex divorce. Consult a local...

That depends upon a number of factors - but if the benefits were accrued during the marriage, the answer is probably yes. Consult a local...

Can I sue for portion of military retirement after the divorce?

This should have been handled during, not after the divorce. Consult a local attorney ASAP and have your divorce papers reviewed.

1. It seems obvious - but hiding in the closet is not the same as infidelity. 2. Understanding the custody situation requires analysis of a number...

I was married and divorced in Mexico and have 2 children that were born in US, i am giving child support in Mexico

If you are paying by check that is proof of child support payment. If you're not paying by check, start now.

My spouse put my marriage for annulment and her family accused me for false pretense and threaten me for felony.

The felony threat is nonsense. But you do need to respond to the case. And no, you can not get married until the current marriage is finished.

My divorce was 8 yrs. ago. My attorney dropped me when he said it would cost more than what I paid. Now he wants $1600 .

They can - but you should check the statute of limitations on breach of contract in your state. It may be a defense.