Once it's signed and notarized it's very hard to undo it.

Can i get an annullment?

It's possible that you can get an annulment rather than a divorce, but the process will likely be slower and more expensive than a divorce. Contact...

For many reasons I would like to ask the questions at deposition. It is much more efficient. Is this allowed?

If that's true, your lawyer isn't serving you well. But even if it's true your questions will not necessarily be helpful to your case. Your lawyer...

What is the purpose of a legal separation agreement in New York State? Can I use it if we are still living together?

A legal separation ends the economic partnership that is part of your marriage. The easy way to understand it is - if you buy a lottery ticket...

Can I keep my mother in law from moving in by filing for divorce and then petitioning the court to "lock down" my home?

It's hard to see how filing for divorce would provide the kind of relief you're seeking.

How do I ensure that my spouse can't claim to have any rights to the house I'm b or its equity during filing and actual divorce?

Of the previous answers Mr. Bliven's is the only one that even comes close to being correct. If you're legally separated you don't have to do...

How does my parents get back monies from my ex husband?

Litigation is the only option - and the question of whether it's worth it will depend upon the amount of money involved.

Since I didn't say this, is this slander?

Possibly...but not necessarily. The specific words matter.

While being married my husband has had an affair which resulted in a child. Does him having an affair void the prenup

Not unless the prenup contains such a clause.

Will I have to file a motion to "amend an answer" to countersue in a divorce case in this instance? Read the details.

The question is - what is it you think you accomplish by filing a motion or amending an answer??? If you're just opposing what was requested by...