A voucher is not something that is the subject of a custody determination. Either there is a settlement agreement, in which case it is negotiated,...

Are collaborative attorneys obligated to let the client know if they feel the case is adversarial and not liking to work?

No. That's one of the many reasons why you should have your own attorney review anything before you sign it.

I made a separation agreement but it was signed by the judge. Can it be found in public records?

You can look in the court file - and most likely you'll find that it was not a separation agreement.

Does this mean that my divorce is final?

Probably - but you should check the file in the courthouse to be certain.

Wife arrested for DWI # 4 bond $20,000ish. also possession with intent to distribute. Can I divorce her and avoid the bond?

You can divorce her. Your options with regard to the bond are more limited - but you can advise the bonding company that you're removing your support.

How do I proceed with my divorce

It depends - what are the papers you have signed? The best next step for you is to consult a local attorney and discuss filing requirements.

California Divorce

If you meet the residency requirement in your current state you can file there and have her served through the proper means - which varies by the...

No.

You have just learned why litigating pro se against a party represented by an attorney is a problem. You should have dealt with these issues at the...

How do you sue your wife for lying on an affidavit that resulted in having you locked away in the psych ward for 7days?

Presumably this is on the basis of some affidavit filed by your wife. You should show it to a local attorney and discuss your options.