Will I remain the beneficiary of my husband's life insurance if I have physical custody of our children?

It is something that could be negotiated and included in a settlement agreement.

How do I get my car that my ex wife and I agreed was the only thing I got from the divorce?

If it's in your divorce decree or settlement you can go to the court that issued the judgment and seek enforcement.

Been married 8 years (second marriage). I paid off 130,000 mortgage with my funds. Is he entitled to half of house?

If he helped pay for the house he is probably entitled to some of the increase in value, if any, during the marriage. You are certainly entitled to...

Do I qualify for a Motion for Assignment of Pretrial Judge under Rule 11.3 - Rules of Judicial Administration?

You can make any motion you like - but it would seem unlikely that a pro se litigant would do any better under such a scheme. You'd do better to...

Am I bound by the "final judgement & divorce decree" if I have NOT signed it yet?

If the judge has signed the judgment, you're bound by it. If not, you're not. If you and your not yet ex have signed a settlement agreement...

Not sure if I need a real estate attorney or a divorced attorney. lived with a man for almost 20 years, never married him.

Real estate.

COLA

You would need to know the COLA factor for each year and do the math - and then seek enforcement through either through the court that issued the...

Abandonment of what?

My brother is in jail and hes married. He sent his wife uncontested divorce papers and wants to find out if hes legally divorced

There is no such thing as an automatic divorce. You can look online for case information or go to the relevant county court house.

How do I go about finishing my divorce and it end kindly on my behalf?

The best advice anyone can give you is to use the Find a Lawyer tab at the upper left of the page and find someone in your county. You're right...