I am in the process of divorcing my foreign husband. I would like to withdraw my affidavit of support. What forms should I file

That's more of an immigration question than a divorce question.

I live in NYS and my husband and I are seeking a divorce. Do we need to file a legal separation prior to filing for divorce?

No - a separation is no longer necessary in New York. Child support is calculated based on a percentage of the non custodial parent's income....

Divorce, and here in New York. You'll probably need an attorney to deal with the international issues.

Can i leave the area before I start divorce proceeding

Yes, you can move. No it is not abandonment if you are legally separated already. But leaving your son may have consequences in a custody...

How can I find out in New York State if my husband filled for a legal separation without me knowing abou ? Would I be notified ?

One would have to be served with papers if there were an action for a separation. If there were forged papers signed and filed you might not know-...

How long will it take?

Here in Westchester County typically it takes less than four months from the date of the filing of the paperwork to the granting of the final...

Do I have any recourse against soon to be ex wife vandalizing the marital residence which she has exclusive occupancy to?

You should have your attorney file a motion with the Court.

After the Divorce-- Ex is still living in the marital home. He is in violation of agreement.

There's no way anyone can tell you how to "fill out" an OTSC - that's not the kind of filing that is an easy do-it-yourself project. Without...

There is no time limit. However your attorney should know how to move the case forward.

How can I divorce my husband that lives overseas?

Assuming he's not cooperating you file a case in your county and have him served under the appropriate procedure - which varies depending upon the...