Not sure of the marriage laws in Oregon

You are still married unless you are divorced. Marriages don't just dissolve themselves.

How long after after a final divorce can you file for a modification of child support?

It would definitely be in your interest to at least consult with a local attorney. Discuss the situation in detail...

I got married in Ecuador about 5 years ago but I live in NC so how can I get divorced?

If you have met the residency requirement in North Carolina, file there and have your husband served under the appropriate law.

Can I still get half of my husband's 401k if he cashed and spent it already without my knowing?

Probably not. But you should discuss your situation in detail with a local divorce attorney.

Why I wonder when all the legal process of divorce was completed 20 years ago do I have to wait another 2 years for my divorce

That makes no sense whatsoever, unless what you're trying to say is that you're filing a new divorce case. And if you are - the county in which...

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From the day a divorce decree comes before the judge, how long before it is final?

That depends on the practice of the individual judge.

Divorce and custody advice

You should discuss these issues with a local attorney who can best advise you as to the practice of your local court in arranging supervised...

If a man divorces a woman, is he definitely responsible to pay a minimum amount of alimony? For how long?

That depends upon the circumstances - and there's not enough information in your posting to analyze.

What to do with house in an uncontested divorce?

If you don't know - you'll probably need an attorney to draft a proper settlement agreement.

Need a lawyer to have divorce decree modified

Use the "find a lawyer" tab, above.