If I buy a property will my soon to be ex wife have a share in it if my divorce is underway for the last one and a half years?

If you buy a property without her consent you will be violating the automatic orders in your divorce case. That having been said, even if you...

Can I file for a non-contested divorce in New York if we live in separate States?

Yes. Where your spouse lives is not a limiting factor.

Married in the Dominican Republic, Getting a divorce there, but not physically present- Recognized in NYC?

Dominican divorces with neither party present will be recognized in New York only if no one challenges them. If either party challenges the divorce...

Am I entitled to part of my husbands 401k plan after we divorce

If the 401k was accrued during the marriage, yes.

Am I legally responsible for my husband's debts after we divorce?

That depends upon the reason for the debts. Were they incurred for family expenses?

Who gets child custody?

That's not enough information on which to make a judgment.

How do I get a divorce when I was married in another country?

The same way as any one else. Service of process is the only difference. Contact a local attorney and work through the details.

You need an attorney in the state in which your case is taking place. What does it say on the papers?

What is the easiest way to file for divorce in New York state? Where do i go for free help with other related divorce questions?

Most courthouses have offices for the self represented - you can try to hack your way through the necessary forms. Or you can hire an attorney.

my question is, is the recording I have enough to charge him with adultery, and If so, is he still entitled to half of my asset

I know this is not what you want to hear - but when he gets around to checking with an attorney he'll discover that adultery has nothing to do with...