I've been separated(not legally)from my wife since Nov '12. She is pregnant with another mans baby. What are my options?

Yes you can get divorced now - but you should consult a local divorce attorney quickly to discuss the impending birth.

Can my mom's 2nd husband keep the death benefit from her job if their separation agreement says he cannot keep anything?

A settlement agreement is a contract. But if the hospital paid out and had no notice of the assignment of benefits, your claim is against the...

Is equitable distribution taxable in Tennessee?

ED is generally not taxable. But consult your accountant.

What am i suppose to do

He can go to jail and/or be deported. You can get a divorce.

Divorcing , i'm staying in home. owe 125,000 on house, may be worth 100,00. how do I buy her out, without re-financing?

You don't, unless she's in a mood to make a big mistake.

How could my Mexican divorce decree accepted by the court in NY and rejected by the immigration and consequently reject I-130?

It isn't clear who you got a letter from advising that you're still married. However, generally, the New York courts accept foreign divorces - if...

An pre-RJI does not "turn into" an RJI. An RJI has to be filed. If you filed the papers yourself you have to wait for the papers to be reviewed.

Once the judge order the divorce is final if nither party signs the paper work and do not file it with the clerks office are the

The divorce is granted when the Judge signs the Judgment of Divorce and that document is filed by the Court with the clerk. Failure to complete...

Can Interspousal Gifts be marital property in NY? Can they be returned upon request?

It is highly unlikely that there would be litigation over this subject, so ultimately it becomes a matter for negotiation. But the gifts are not...

No. They're separate property, belonging to the recipient. Sorry!