Is child support calculated after alimony or before?

If your husband has income that high you should be discussing your case in detail with a local attorney, not asking questions on an internet forum.

I need help responding to divorce papers.

What you need is to get help from an attorney who has read the papers with which you were served. It need not be an expensive attorney - but...

I have been separated for 3 years. My husband has filed for divorce. Am I entitled to spousal support if I am losing my job.

That's not enough information on which to analyze your case. How long have you been married? What are your income levels? What is the division of...

My husband and I are separated and have not filed any paperwork regarding custody of the children. Is it necessary to do so?

It's not clear what you mean by "motions put in place" - but if you have an attorney, that attorney should be advising you.

Divorce in Alabama forbids living with anyone while children are minors. Is that enforceable in FL?

It's enforceable. However it may also be possible to modify the order. Consult a local attorney to have it reviewed.

Notice of Withdrawal of appearance

You always have the right to dismiss your attorneys - but it may not be a good idea, especially if your case is complicated.

You should get a local attorney and seek an order - trying to do this on your own will be difficult at best.

What type of divorce do I need to file?

If you can agree on all terms you can file for an uncontested divorce. If you can not agree the case is contested. You should check with your local...

Want to know what my rights are as for seperation vs/ divorce, been married 55 years, he will not put anything in my name.

Without knowing what was acquired and when - and how it was paid for, the only advice one can give is that you should consult a local attorney ASAP.

If my X filed for divorce, how can I finalize it?

Contact a local attorney and see what is necessary - without knowing what's in the file it's impossible to say.