Can you still decide to reconcile after going to a provisional hearing?

Yes, and under some circumstances, yes...in that order.

Can I continue to get my alimony?

Verbal agreements get you nowhere. What does your judgment of divorce say?

How long do you have to be separated from your spouse to get a divorce?

There is no minimum time period.

Medical Insurance Coverage in Legal Separation

Yes.

Would a resumption of living together affect a legal separation agreement, or would it still be valid and serve as a framework.

Unless something is done to terminate the agreement it remains in force. If it is formally terminated it would have little to no effect on any...

It depends entirely upon the complexity of the agreement - but generally $2000-$5000.

What are spouse's rights to lump sum distribution of pension plan assets?

Depending upon how the $360,000 was calculated and how the account was maintained after the payout was received she's entitled to 1/2 of the...

What happens if ex depletes or moves his money from 401K before a QDRO is done?

A QDRO has nothing to do with child support. Neither, for that matter, does going on Medicare.

Indefinitely, no - but depending upon the status of the case it can be delayed for some time...

Can my husband divorce me and not pay child support, without me signing any papers?

Contact a local lawyer ASAP. If you do not respond appropriately to the papers he will win a default.