Where may/must this deposition take place?

Virginia, if that's where the motion is being made.

My estranged husband will not sign divorce documents. He's incarcerated. what do I do ? I've sent them several times.

It's not clear what documents you want him to sign - but a local attorney will be able to guide you through a contested divorce, which will not...

I am currently separated and am having a bitter divorce. We both are seeking full custody of the children

If you're in a bitter divorce the last person you want to get instructions from is your ex. Get advice from your attorney - no one else.

Filing and serving an amended complaint isn't difficult - but if you can't work through the issues you need to speak to and work with a local...

What should I do or expect from my lawyer?

That's not enough information on which to base advice other than to discuss the situation in detail with your attorney - and get the answers from...

Changing date of separation post-judgment.

You can try - but your success if far from certain. As you've just proved (again) when substantial sums are at risk, pro se litigation is ill advised.

A Friend just died, who was still in process of her divorce (but near the end). She died only two days after her Mother,

Inheritances are generally separate property - not community property.

I'm the adverse party in a divorce and my ex's attorney put an attorney lien on me...what does this mean?

That doesn't mean a lien has been placed on you - it means that if you pay money to your ex, your ex's attorney has claim to it up to the amount of...

If I do not know what bank branch my wife does her banking with, as we our being divorced, where do I send the subpoena ?

Yes, there is - available via their website. But you needn't use it. Any branch will do.

I WANT TO FILE FOR ABANDONMENT,MY WIFE LEFT A YEAR AGO,WHAT ARE MY OPTION

She's right. It *is* too cold, especially now. But that has nothing to do with your options: contact a local attorney, file a contested divorce...