Would it make sense financially for a spouse to obtain a divorce if the other spouse becomes sick/disabled?

That depends upon the circumstances - and without a full financial analysis it's impossible to be precise.

Have been waiting for awhile to get ruling on divorce case in Queens County, NY. Can lawyer file a"proposed finding of facts"?

Your lawyer is correct that until the judge rules on the inquest there is nothing to be done - unless the judge suggested that the attorney file a...

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Is there recourse for those dealing with exes of their current spouse whose financial decisions are affecting all of us?

All your husband can do is seek enforcement through the courts - a local lawyer is the place to start.

I am being divorced by my husband after 30 years of marriage in the state of New Mexico. He is pushing me to sign papers quickly

That can't be answered without a full review of your situation. Seek local counsel ASAP.

Divorce granted July 31, 2013. Divorce decree stated he was to pay 5,000 and roll over monies that I was placing into my 401K.

Without a full review of your case no one can give you a specific answer. Consult a local attorney!

What if one party wants a divorce and the other does not?

The party who wants the divorce gets the divorce.

Can I open my divorce case which was final in Sept 2013

Without knowing what you signed and what those documents say no attorney will be able to advise you. Take your papers to a local attorney ASAP.

Division of retirement funds upon divorce.

That depends upon the rules of the pension plan - but ordinarily no payments are made until the primary recipient elects to put the pension into...

I found information that my wife was planning on to get a job, abandon our marriage & have the courts make me pay.

The best starting place is to get that attorney in the town in which you live. That having been said and while I'd agree that courts try not to be...

No.