Does North Carolina require a written separation agreement, even though my wife and I have been separated a little over 3 years.

Require one for what? You can file for a divorce here in New York if you meet the residency requirement.

How can I have a successful separation in New York?

In reverse order: custody and child support are critical issues. Any agreement must comply with the Child Support Standards act. The easiest...

Trying to get married but court clerk says we need English divorce decree any suggestions.

You need a certified translation - and there are may companies that can provide one. That company may not be in your area.

I do not feel my attorney is representing me well in a divorce.

You should have a discussion with your attorney about the issues - but if you're not satisfied you always have the right to change attorneys.

Which state has jurisdiction in a divorce.

NJ does not have jurisdiction. New York or Texas.

Can my soon to be ex wife stop me from getting re-married after our divorce is final?

Under no circumstances would any judge accept that restriction.

If he has not served and it is more than 120 days after the papers were filed the case is dead and you'll need to start over.

Do I need to fire my divorce attorney?

From what you've posted it does not sound as if your attorney has done anything wrong. That having been said it's understandable that you'd be...

Every year for 2 years my husband sold stock I just found out after I filed for divorce can I recover that it's worth $36000

Not necessarily. Why did he sell? What did he sell? Whose stock was it? What happened to the proceeds?

Divorced and getting married..I have a business..is new wife entitled if we get into a divorce ? Prenup?

That depends upon the circumstances. You may want to consider a prenuptial agreement covering the business.