What do you think ?

Attorneys fees are usually considered marital debt. But opening a credit card in your name is a different, and possibly criminal, issue.

When are you considered legally separated in Washington State?

When the order is signed. Until then you are not separated.

I am recently separated and want to know how to stop my wifes bills from affecting my pay check.

Is it a legal separation or are you just living apart? It makes a difference.

Filing a uncontested divorce.. The house is in wife and inlaws name. Should I quitclaim for my interest or ask for a buyout?

If the house was a gift - to whom? What makes you think you're entitled to a share in the gift? Consult a local attorney before signing ANY documents.

At what point during divorce proceedings is the noncustodial parent responsible for child support?

This is a question you should raise directly and immediately with your lawyer. A stipulation may be in order...

OH Dower rights while living in FL

It would likely mean that you're releasing your right to a share in the property. Don't sign anything unless you've had a consultation with an...

I received my 10year green card in the mail (after filing with marriage basis) but i have never received the temporary, HOW!?

No. Presumably there was some mixup in the mail and your two year never arrived.

You can work out the custody issues with your spouse...or seek help from a mediator.

Would I have to withdraw from my 401K in order to divide it with my spouse in a divorce?

You don't make a withdrawal under those circumstances - you get a Qualified Domestic Relations Order, which makes the transfer tax free.

If I'm in arrears for child support and I request a withdrawal from my 401K retirement plan, can they take it in New York State?

If there is a judgment for the arrears the CSEU or your creditor can freeze and ultimately seize any liquid asset.