Do I need to retain an attorney licensed in the same state in which I was divorced to challenge a QDRO?

You need an attorney in the state in which the case is being heard.

Is my spouse's house marital property?

If it was acquired at a time when you were legally separated it is separate property.

What are my options?

You can ask, of course. I don't see any advantage to you in removing his name, but, nonetheless, he could, himself, seek to force the sale, and...

What happens if Petitioner files for a Legal Separation and Respondent files FL 120 requesting a Dissolution of Marriage?

Divorce trumps separation. Work out a settlement, presumably with the help of a local attorney.

Still married but looking to divorce daughter wants to live with me mother has no job.

A seven year old child is not old enough to have the court seriously consider her desire to live with one parent over another. If the child already...

Common Law Marriage for 22 yrs & 2 kids ,man filed for divorce but has never divorced his first wife,is this bigamy on his part

If he was never divorced he can not have entered into a common law marriage.

We are military. Residents of PA. Married in NC. Live in VA. Can we divorce through PA.

If you still meet the residency requirement in Pennsylvania, yes. But you may find it easier in Virginia, depending upon whether you have been...

If the background check is even halfway proficient, yes.

What other divorce notification methods are possible when someone evades (besides publication)?

You can't have an uncontested divorce without signatures on the relevant documents. That having been said, if he's evading service you can seek...

Divorce, and 17000 collateral on house

Is your separation a legal separation or merely physical? Consult a local attorney ASAP and discuss the situation in detail!