Can i file for an uncontested divorce though we do not live in the state we were married in with out going to court?

Yes. It's quite common.

I paid a Lawyer for a Divorce and I don't have a divorce

You should discuss with the attorney the reasons for the delay. If the answers are not satisfactory, you should retain a new attorney.

It would be a retainer, based upon the time expected to deal with your specific situation and the billing rate of the attorney. This can vary,...

Not living in USA but Husband is

It's your choice. If you were married in New York and your husband has been resident here for more than a year, you can get a New York divorce. You...

Do i need a civil divorce if we were married by jewish law only? we have 2 kids in NY

Yes, you need a divorce from a civil court. If you were married in a religious ceremony you are married - unless, of course, one of you was married...

Can I have my separated husband arrested for domestic abuse that occured a year ago? I live in NY.

You should contact the clerk of court in your county and ask about getting a court appointed or legal aid attorney.

I live in ny divorce i pay 67% of college tuition. my chiren will not have anthing to do with me. can the paying of college stop

Whether you can stop paying tuition and upon what such a move could be based depends upon the terms of your divorce and any settlement agreement,...

What legal recourse do I have re: my husband stealing 56K from my 401K? My broker told me he had a release signed by me.

This is a multi-layered problem that can not be answered properly without an in depth review of your situation and your desires. You have some...

Equitable Distribution

Your sole intelligent option is to retain an attorney - you'll be completely overmatched if you try to negotiate this on your own. Equitable...

Do I sign divorce papers if they're false, just to get it over with or will this hurt me later?

If there are issues that are unclear to you in papers your husband has sent you, you should consult with an experienced matrimonial attorney before...