In filing my divorce pro se what are the rules regarding my hand delivering the motion and notice of motion to my spouse in Illi

What motion? Service usually can not be effected by a party to the case - unless the party receiving service signs a document accepting service.

That's not grounds for a mistrial. A decree can be changed under some circumstances - but not necessarily yours. Consult a local attorney and...

How can an ex husband be forced to comply with property settlement in California divorce?

If a party refuses to comply you can seek a court order requiring compliance, and in some cases, a contempt citation.

Can my husband file for Child Support while divorce is in process ?

Where are you in the process? Consult a local attorney and show that attorney your papers.

How can I find a low cost divorce attorney in Charlotte, nc

Try the "find a lawyer" tab above - or call your local bar association.

Can Court accept Affidavit of Service for summons served on def's relative in the Phillipines because def. refused documents?

Service overseas has to be done in compliance with international law. If the party can't be served conventionally it is possible to seek permission...

I am looking for a divorce and child custody lawyer.

The "Find a Lawyer" tab above may help. Look for someone familiar with the specific issues in military divorces.

Are the washer and dryer your "personal belongings?"

Invasion of Privacy and Marital Home. I have been separated for almost 10 months and am nearing settlement in my divorce.

The best thing to do is to work through your lawyer to deal with whether a) you should get anything returned or b) you should get some other form...

Are assets always split 50/50 in a divorce? Even if one person walks away from all payment obligations?

No - 50/50 is not the rule in New York. It's "equitable distribution" - and equitable is not always 50-50.