What is a Rule 7.1 Statement and do I need to answer it as a pro se suing WaMu (Chase Bank) in federal court?

If you haven't done the basic research on the court website to discover what a Rule 7.1 statement is then you're highly unlikely to be succesful...

Can I sue boss and himan resources for writing libel about me being incompetent and talking bad about me behind my back?

It depends, first upon the precise words they used and the way in which they used them and then upon whether you have any damages are a result.

My husband used one of his social security number when we got married

You can't legally have two different social security numbers. Period.

(New York Family Law) Visitation Denial: Is the advice on this recommended?

More than anything else I'd considered them silly. If there's a court order, just arrange visitation pursuant to the order. If there's a problem...

(New York Family Law) What's the procedure for dismissing a "no merit" order of protection?

There is no "procedure" - you will have to seek to have the Court cancel the order, which will require a hearing at minimum...and it's not certain...

The title and payments are of no great import. The issue is how all the property of the marriage will be divided. In a long term marriage you...

What disadvantages do i face when it comes to divorcing if I ask my husband to move out of Ithe home.

None.

Do i have a strong libel case

Even if it's defamatory (and it may be, depending upon the precise words used) unless your ex is quite wealthy it's unlikely you will find...

How can I buy out my wife during a divorce when our home has no equity? She doesn't want the home and has moved out.

You don't provide enough information in your question to be certain, but, depending upon the length of the marriage and how the house was paid for...

What are my remedies when I am up against an unethical / dirty attorney?

You should speak to your attorney to discuss whether there are actual violations involved in your adversary's conduct. If there are violations...