What if my ex husband has been in contempt of court since divorce and I disobey orders once, what could possibly happen?

If you violate an order you can be held in contempt. However, you'd both be better off were you to be more flexible and negotiate these items....

As our former governor can tell you, hiring an escort can have serious consequences. Absent more detail it's impossible to advise you properly.

Is this legal and binding?

Yes, if drafted and executed properly, a postnuptial agreement can be fully effective.

Can abandonment be picked up as ground for divorce by person who actually left his/her spouse (state NY)?

If the case is contested only the person who was left behind can use abandonment. If you'd like to discuss your situation in detail, please feel...

If a person needs to divorce but doesnt have the money to do so is there a quick and easy way to go about it

It's relatively inexpensive if the two parties agree on the grounds and economic split, and if there are no children involved.

I have been married since 1997 and getting divorced. Am I eligible for have or more of my husbands pension. Please reply asap.

Assuming that the pension was accrued during the marriage, you would under almost all circumstances be entitled to a portion of it.

Divorce with prenuptial agreement.

One would have to read the prenuptial agreement to be certain that it complies with New York law. In terms of the divorce, the agreement would...

Been legally seperated over a year,no children involved,assets already taken care of in seperation

To convert a separation agreement to a divorce requires the same kind of divorce filing as any other case, with the same court and/or legal fees....

My husband was already served the divorce papers. We have a son together. Do I have to include child support

No.

Am I responsible for paying my husbands child support payments if he dies?

No. Not under any circumstances.