Child support summons

You can hire a process server to see if he can be located. A good resource is the National Association of Process Servers, linked below. You can...

Am a married man who wants a divorce but am in another relationship with another woman and she is pregnant, advise!

Under New York law "fault" is not considered in dealing with equitable division of property. Who files first is also irrelevant. You should...

Seprate but still sharing the same household?

Yes.

I'm deployed in the military. My wife is serving me papers....what are my options?

You should speak with your division's legal officer. The military has some procedures to assist you in dealing with the situation.

If I keep family home, how much is my wifes share?

If the house was a gift to you alone or your inheritance it may be considered separate property, not subject to equitable distribution, except to...

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In a divorce, if a woman gets part of a man's 401k, when does she get the money? When he retires or when divorce is final?

Typically what happens is that the judge signs a Qualified Domestic Relations Order under which the administrator of the 401k is directed to...

Once legal seperation papers are signed by both parties, can they be revised?

You can certainly modify an agreement by mutual consent. However, if you did not put in the agreement the items you agreed to you have just found...

Am i divorced?

You should check the file in the county courthouse. The court you need to check should be listed on the papers you have.

My husband wants written in our divorce agreement that if i ever turn "lesbian" he gains full custody of our children.

It's a bizarre demand under any circumstances, and presumably unenforceable. What does "turn lesbian" actually mean? But you should consult with...

A co-worker has made several claims to others that my assist. & I are thieves. Can we sue for slander/defamation?

Accusing you falsely of theft is defamatory. However, the cost of the litigation will likely far exceed any actual recovery. You should consult...